About Facebook, I was a naysayer. When I heard about older people being on Facebook I figured that like skinny jeans on fifty year-olds, this was one fad that had already become passé. Individuals my age were trying way too hard to be hip. But then one day I reluctantly signed up and logged on, and a whole new world opened up to me. I discovered a fascinating way to be in touch, to follow the pieces of everyday life, to find out about art exhibits, compelling theatre and political commentary. It is possible to play an active role or to fade into the background. At the very least, you can spy on those who went to high school with your children and notice with surprise that the boy who often brought trouble into your house is married and has children. Day by day, the choice is wide open.